You used to feel steady. Now you wake up bracing yourself.
Before your shift even starts, you can feel the heaviness, the dread, the pressure that hits before your badge even clips on.
Your mind is already scanning for what might go wrong, who needs something, what chart is late, what admin task will cost you your evening.
You’ve trained for years, sacrificed so much, built a life around helping others… and yet lately you don’t even feel like yourself.
On the outside, you appear composed and capable, but inside there’s a part of you that is unraveling.
You used to walk into work with purpose.
Now you walk in feeling behind, depleted, invisible, or quietly wondering, “How much longer can I keep doing this?”
You used to hold space with empathy.
Now you’re numb, irritable, snapping at colleagues or your partner, or crying on the drive home.
You used to have a life outside medicine.
Now your body feels neglected, your relationships stretched thin, your hobbies forgotten.
And the hardest part?
Everyone thinks you’re fine because you’re still performing like you always do.
You’re asked to care for more patients than you have time for.
You’re expected to function flawlessly while understaffed, under-rested, and overburdened.
You’re exposed to trauma most people never see: codes, rapid responses, pregnancy loss, suicide attempts, impossible decisions, devastating conversations.
You go to work sick, skip meals, hold your bladder for hours, and keep going anyway.
the calm one
the strong one
the unshakeable one
the resilient one
the one who “can handle anything”
stop waking up with dread
feel grounded and capable again
actually enjoy your life, not just survive it
have energy left for your family, relationships, and body
rediscover hobbies and pleasure
feel connected, present, and emotionally available
stop apologizing for needing rest
loosen the grip of perfectionism
feel like your work matters — without it consuming you
understand what burnout, overwhelm, trauma exposure, and chronic stress are doing to your mind and body
loosen impossible internal standards
reconnect with the parts of you medicine has pressed into the background
cultivate self-compassion (yes, even you)
set boundaries that protect your humanity
explore who you are beyond your role
build a life that feels sustainable and deeply your own
Primary Care
completing a two-year fellowship in primary care psychology
serving as Behavioral Health Clinical Director at OHSU Family Medicine
training residents, physicians, and medical teams
co-founding Tend Health, a national mental health company serving medical professionals exclusively for five years
You don’t have to explain how the system works.
I’ve sat in exam rooms, team rooms, huddles, and hallways.
I’ve listened to exhausted clinicians whisper, “I can’t keep doing this.”
I’ve seen the cracks the public doesn’t see.
You don’t have to translate anything for me.
I know the language, the culture, the unspoken rules of medicine.
I know the pressure and the cost.
I get it.
I work with healthcare professionals across Oregon — in Salem, Portland, Bend, Lake Oswego and beyond — including:
physicians
residents & fellows
nurse practitioners
PAs
nurses
surgeons
hospitalists
OB/GYNs
emergency physicians
mental health clinicians
healthcare leaders & administrators
Schedule a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit.
Meet for your first session, in person in Silverton or via telehealth anywhere in Oregon.
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